Coach
A dating coach who already knows
Ask anything. It already has the backstory. Advice that fits where you are, not a TED talk about confidence.
AI dating coachGet more matches.
Get more matches.
Land more dates.
Remembers every match. Tells you exactly what to say next.
Free on iPhone, Android, and the web:
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4.7Rating
100k+Users
A coach who already knows your situation.
One ongoing chat for you. One thread for every person you're seeing. Ask about her and Wingman already knows the last text, the last date, and the stage you're at. You don't recap. That's the product.
One coach that doesn't reset
Your home chat picks up where you left it. No new thread. No recap every time you open the app.
A thread for every match
Add her and she gets her own chat and her own page. Advice about her, not about dating in general.
It gets sharper as you go
Photos, quizzes, and conversations feed back in. Week four is better than day one.
The toolkit
What actually gets you dates
Your profile, your texts, and the people you're seeing. One memory behind all of it.
Dossier
A page for every girl you're talking to
Status, stage, Frame Score, and a thread that doesn't forget. You stop starting from scratch.
Profile
Find out why you're not matching
Rate the photos. Rewrite the bio. Get a full profile review with the actual fix, not 'smile more.'
Conversations
The next text, not a pickup line
Screenshot the chat. Get a reply that sounds like you, tuned to that moment. Never a canned opener.
Insights
It catches what you scrolled past
Patterns in how you text, signals in how she replies, and the move you'd have missed.
Quizzes
An honest read on your game
Short quizzes. A score. What's working, what's costing you, and what to fix first.
Romantic Interests
Stop re-explaining your situation.
Add anyone you're talking to. She gets her own thread and her own page. Where you met, what stage you're at, what happened last time: told once, remembered.
Where things actually stand
Matched, texting, first date, seeing each other, something messier. The advice changes with the stage, because it should.
How she reads
Attachment style, what she lights up about, and the things that gave you pause. Noted once. Used every time you ask.
Your Frame Score
Who's chasing, who's invested, drawn from the conversations you actually had. Ask Wingman to unpack it and it will.
Profile & photosFind out why you're not matching.
Find out why you're not matching.
Then fix it.
Your photos are doing more work than anything you write. Wingman tells you which ones are carrying you, which are costing you, and what to do about it.
Rate My Photo
One photo, one honest score, and the reason behind it.
Compare Photos
Two or three head to head. A straight call on which one performs.
Full Profile Review
Up to six photos and your bio, judged as a profile, not a pile of selfies.
Fix My Bio
A rewrite that sounds like you, with the reasoning shown.
Tune My Photo
Clean up a decent shot without making it look like someone else.
Check My Vibe
Upload a conversation and find out how your texts actually read.
ChatGPT forgets you. Wingman doesn't.
Most dating AIs start from zero every time you open them. Wingman keeps the coach, the matches, and the last conversation.
Generic AI chatbot
Every session starts at zero
- Forgets who you are and who you're dating
- Tips you've already read a hundred times
- You re-explain the whole situation, every time
- No idea if the profile or the texts are the problem
Wingman
Picks up where you left off
- Remembers every match, conversation, and detail
- Advice tuned to your real situation, right now
- Open any thread exactly where you left it
- Tells you what to fix: photos, bio, and the next text
iPhone, Android, Web
Phone, laptop, same memory.
Start a conversation on your phone at the bar. Finish it on your laptop at home. One account. English, Spanish, and French.
4.7 average · 100k+ users
What users are saying
Men who fixed the profile, the texts, and the follow-through.
I was getting about one to two matches on dating apps per week. After I used Wingman to overhaul my profiles, this literally went up to more than 10 matches per day. That’s a 30x increase in matches thanks to Wingman.
Patrik G★★★★★I didn’t even realize how I was doing just about everything wrong on Tinder until I used Wingman. I think most men don’t know what they’re doing wrong and why they’re getting no matches.
Victor N★★★★★Wingman is like ChatGPT but for getting a girlfriend. It’s worth every penny
James B★★★★★I found this on reddit during an AI discussion. The bot's attention to detail is excellent.
This app is better than all the other “dating AI” apps out there
Carl★★★★★I got my girlfriend because Wingman was on point about how to play it cool and do the right moves. Goated app
Andrew★★★★★Overall a strong app. I’m a heavy user of dating apps (lol) and Wingman helped me revamp my entire profile, and more matches came as promised. The chatbot is basically uncensored, so no BS from it.
It does what it says and it isn’t hard to cancel at all. I cancelled my sub with one button. Wingman is super useful though, I only cancelled because I found someone :)
Thomas★★★★★This app is actually really great, one of the best AI tools I've used so far. I ran it through a few conversations I was having, and now I've been rethinking my entire model of dating app interactions and what women are looking to get out of them.
I want to thank you guys. The bot helped a good bit. Everything is top notch.
Love this app to come up with pickup lines, it's actually good compared to Rizz and all the other ones that sound like robots. Very impressed.
Open it. Add her. Get the line.
You can be in a better conversation tonight.
Download it free
Make an account and tell Wingman what your dating life looks like right now.
Add who you're talking to
Drop in a match, a screenshot, a name. She gets a thread. You stop recapping.
Ask what to send
Openers, replies, photo fixes, a gut check. Wingman already has the context.
Try Wingman FreeNo card required
No card to start
Free to try. Premium when it's paying off.
Use the coach, rate a photo, get an opener. Upgrade when you want the limits off.
Free
$0forever
- Coach chat, with limits
- A few Romantic Interests at a time
- Rate My Photo and Openers & Replies
- Quizzes to get you started
PremiumThe full toolkit
Unlock everything
weekly, monthly, or quarterly- Unlimited chat and image uploads
- Unlimited Romantic Interests
- Fix My Bio and full Profile Review
- Check My Vibe and Compare Photos
- Tune My Photo, unlimited
- Every quiz, retakes included
Cancel any time, from your account settings or your app store.
Inside the app
Real screens. Fake names. The features are the real ones.
Replies that fit the conversation
From the blog
More postsWingman Blog
How to get more matches, plus the questions guys actually ask.
Library
Browse by Category
Six ways into Wingman's dating intelligence.
Blog
Dating advice, app reviews, and deep dives on getting more matches.
Glossary
Dating terms decoded: breadcrumbing, zombieing, and the rest.
City Guides
Where to date in every city. Spots, neighborhoods, and what works locally.
Archetypes
Goth girls, gym bros, James Bonds. How to attract them, how to be them.
What to Say
Exactly what to text in every dating scenario. Copy, paste, send.
Situations
Decode her behavior. What it means when she does X, and what to do.
Get in the app
Get more matches. Land more dates.
A coach that remembers every match, every conversation, and every detail. Fix the profile. Get better replies. Stop starting from zero.
- A coach that remembers every match
- Photo ratings, bios, and full profile reviews
- Openers and replies from a screenshot
Free to start. No credit card.
FAQs
What makes Wingman different from ChatGPT or other dating AIs?
Memory. Other chatbots forget you the moment you close the app, so every session starts with you re-explaining. Wingman keeps an ongoing coach chat plus a dedicated thread for every person you're seeing. It remembers where you met, what stage you're at, and what happened last time. The advice is about your actual dating life, not dating in general. It is also built to be straight with you, not diplomatic.
Is Wingman free?
Yes. There is a real free tier: coach chat, a few Romantic Interests, photo ratings and openers, and quizzes, all with limits. Premium takes the limits off and unlocks Fix My Bio, Full Profile Review, Check My Vibe, and Compare Photos. You can start without a card.
Which apps does it work with?
All of them. Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, OkCupid, Instagram, Snapchat, or someone you met in person. Wingman works from screenshots and from what you tell it, so it isn't tied to any one platform.
Can I use it on my phone and my computer?
Both. Wingman is on the App Store, Google Play, and the web. All three share one account and one memory. Start a conversation on your phone and finish it on your laptop. The apps ship in English, Spanish, and French.
What's a Frame Score?
A read on the balance of a connection: who's chasing, who's investing, and whether that's working for you. Wingman builds it from the conversations you share about a specific person. You can ask it to explain the score and what to do about it.
How does Wingman protect my privacy?
Your dating life is personal, so it's treated that way. Conversations with Wingman are anonymized, so your identity isn't linked to the content of your chats. We don't see or store your name, email, or payment details alongside them. Anything used to improve the service is stripped of identifying details, and you can opt out at any time. We don't sell, rent, or share your data with third parties.
Can I cancel any time?
Yes. Cancel from your account settings, or through the App Store or Google Play if you subscribed there. One button, no retention maze. If anything goes wrong, contact us and we'll sort it.
What if I need help?
Reach out on the Contact Us page, or join the community Discord. Both get you to a human.