He's not the gadgets
Bond is not a gear list. Take away the Aston Martin, the Walther, and the tux that costs more than your car, and what's left is one trait: he already decided how the night goes. He is outcome independent to the point of being a little rude about it. He is not hoping the date goes well. He assumed it would, booked it, and showed up early.
That assumption is the entire trick, and the good news is it costs nothing. You can run it tonight with a clean shirt and a cocktail bar you've already been to once.
What he actually does
Picks the place. He never sends "where do you want to go?" He picks somewhere good, books it, and tells her the time and the address. Deciding reads as confidence because it is confidence.
Gets there first. He's at the bar when she walks in. The frame is set before a word is spoken: he was here, comfortable, not refreshing his phone.
Orders like he's done it before. Not to flex, because he knows what he likes. "I'll have what you're having" is not Bond. Pick.
Listens more than he talks. He asks one real question and waits for the actual answer. He does not fill silence with his resume.