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City Dating Guides

City-by-city dating guides for single men. Where to go, what works, what doesn't, and the best date spots in every city.

Dating in Washington DC: A Guide for Single Men

Type-A, transient, and weird about status, with a ratio quietly on your side. Here's how to actually date in DC.

Dating in Vienna: A Guide for Single Men

Formal, slow, and ice-cold on the surface. Here's how to actually date in Vienna.

Dating in Vancouver: A Guide for Single Men

Gorgeous city, brutal cost of living, and a population too polite to tell you they're not interested. Here's how to actually date here.

Dating in Toronto: A Guide for Single Men

Polite to a fault, app-heavy, and a ratio that's quietly on your side. Here's how to actually date in the 6ix.

Dating in Tampa: A Guide for Single Men

Sunshine, sprawl, and a surprising number of single women. Here's how to actually date in Tampa.

Dating in Sydney: A Guide for Single Men

Beautiful city, brutal competition, and a social scene that rewards the guy who gets off the apps and into the room.

Dating in Stockholm: A Guide for Single Men

Beautiful women, a favorable ratio, and a culture that will freeze you out unless you know the rules.

Dating in St. Louis: A Guide for Single Men

Underrated ratio, a surprisingly social city, and cheap enough that you can actually afford to date. Here's how to win in St. Lou.

Dating in Singapore: A Guide for Single Men

Conservative roots, a city that never sleeps, and a dating pool full of overachievers. Here's how to actually win here.

Dating in Seattle: A Guide for Single Men

Brutal ratio, a real Seattle Freeze, and a city asleep by 11. Here's how to actually date here.

Dating in Scottsdale: A Guide for Single Men

Sun, silicone, and a surprisingly winnable market if you know where to look.

Dating in San Jose: A Guide for Single Men

Worst ratio in the country, a city that goes to bed at 9, and half the men you're competing with are brilliant and socially useless. Here's how to actually date here.

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Dating in San Francisco: A Guide for Single Men

Brutal ratio, an 11pm bedtime, and the lowest male effort bar in America. Here's how to actually date in SF.

Dating in San Diego: A Guide for Single Men

Great weather, mediocre urgency, and a city where looking good is table stakes. Here's how to actually date here.

Dating in San Antonio: A Guide for Single Men

Young city, old-school values, and a ratio that's actually in your favor. Here's how to not waste it.

Dating in Salt Lake City: A Guide for Single Men

The Mormon question, a surprisingly good ratio, and a city that rewards the guy who actually knows what he wants.

Dating in Sacramento: A Guide for Single Men

Better ratio than you think, a genuinely underrated scene, and a city that rewards the guy who just shows up.

Dating in Raleigh: A Guide for Single Men

Young, educated, growing fast, and weirdly easy to win if you know how to play it.

Dating in Portland: A Guide for Single Men

A soft market, a weird culture code, and a city that rewards the guy willing to just make a move.

Dating in Pittsburgh: A Guide for Single Men

Better ratio than you think, a city built on neighborhoods, and a scene that rewards showing up in person.

Dating in Phoenix: A Guide for Single Men

Endless sprawl, a seasonal dating market, and a city that rewards the guy who moves first. Here's how to actually date in Phoenix.

Dating in Philadelphia: A Guide for Single Men

Better ratio than you think, a chip on its shoulder, and a personality you can actually work with. Here's how to date in Philly.

Dating in Paris: A Guide for Single Men

The most romantic city in the world is also one of the most humbling. Here's how to actually date here.

Dating in Orlando: A Guide for Single Men

A city that never sleeps but somehow stays shallow. Here's how to date in Orlando like a local, not a tourist.

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